I gave you insight on the unveiled reality and the common illusions most men face when going out to approach women in the club. One of the biggest lessons you should’ve picked up is that your competition level is ridiculously lower than you assume. 80% of the guys in the room won’t know how to approach a woman or how to get girls, point blank period. That’s a secret you can use as leverage on how to get the girls in the clubs.
Now in part two, I’m going to share with you three timeless tips on how to sexyhot in the club. We’re going to focus on now are your behaviors and how you should carry yourself inside the club to maximize your attraction value.
Here are some critical factors you need to run through on your checklist.
1. Build social value. Social value on the surface will serve as a massive leverage. When you are seen with other girls, the girls inside the club will take notice. Get into the habit first of cold approaching a girl, and then rotate onto the next person. There’s nothing wrong with sarging solo in the club, but be seen with other people. I’d go to a club sometime by myself and make new friends there. Especially if you’re a guy, you can find a wing-man easily if you see another guy out alone in the club. This is very common, you just have to pay attention. Afterall, every guy is out for the same thing – to get a girl. So team up, help each other out.
2. Hang with the club owners, managers, PR’s, bouncers, bartenders, camera man, or even the cashier. Get to know the staff the venues that you often frequent. This will give you more social value, which converts to more winning edge. You never know, the club owner may give you drink vouchers, discounts, free shots, VIP treatment; all this adds tremendous value to your social value, and will wow the girl you want to attract. See yourself as the crème de la crème guys of the night.
3. Look and smell good. Yes, outer appearance, or should I say, your presentation are major composites of selling point. Since you’re in a club, women will generally use their eyes to judge you on first impression. They’ll notice your physicality: Your body language, facial features, and what you’re wearing. The way you wear your clothes will either win or subtract you points. If you look overweight, then shape up. No excuses.
Once you’re within close proximity, she will involuntarily smell you, if you smell good that is. So invest in some quality cologne, don’t boot leg them. Hit the mall, grab a cool bottle of Aqua Di Gio or Ralph Lauren Black. Not to mention, when you’re shopping at the cologne section, you’ll get a chance to strike up conversations and flirt with the sales lady.
Not to go off topic, you want something that will last throughout the night, but make sure to not give yourself too heavy of a sprinkle. And guys, when you’re in the club, do a breath and sweat check. Escort yourself to the nearest restroom and dry up. Women detest men with liquid oozing out their pores. It’s disturbing, repulsive, uninviting. In fact, it will scare them panties-less. Would you approach a girl if she was sweating all over? I hope not.
Remember guys, when you’re out in the club, maintain a strong positive, vibrant, upbeat energy. Look like you’re having fun. Those are the traits on how to get a woman hooked onto you. A guy that knows how to have a good time – that’s what they want, since most of them will usually wind up bored listening to the same music and hanging out with the same people. Don’t just have the same intentions like other guys who are only out to pick up girls. Don’t just crash the party, be the life of the party.